"I forgive them for it."
Shayma Assaad:sins of the father
Shayma Assaad is also pregnant and worried. She was just 15 when she travelled to Syria with her parents. Her mother is now in the camp with her,and her father in prison.
Shayma quickly met and married Mohammed Noor Masri,the formerSydney tradesman turned IS recruit whom theHerald andAge interviewed in a Kurdish prison some distance from the camp.
Now 19,Ms Assaad already has three young sons and,in similar terms to her husband’s,she is also begging to be brought home.
"Everybody makes mistakes in life and I reckon we deserve a chance. The young kids don’t know anything in life yet. Why don’t they deserve a second chance? They have nothing to do with it,"she says.
She has had an ultrasound and been told the baby is fine,"and she told me I’m getting a little girl". But she says the medical care in the camp is poor. Her eldest son Alae had a serious chest infection but had not received enough antibiotics.
Back in Australia,Shayma’s mother-in-law"Carol"was only alerted by the story in theHerald andAge to the fact that Masri,her son,was in prison having gone to live with IS.
"It hit me like a brick,"she says."I feel shattered. My heart is broken."
She had not heard from Masri since 2014 and,while she’d had a"gut feeling"he might have joined the"caliphate",she was still not prepared for the reality.
"I haven't been sleeping well. I haven't been feeling well. And now I have to process this."
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Carol traces her son’s path to Syria all the way back to"substantial behavioural problems"during a dysfunctional childhood in a broken home.
Masri lived with his father from the age of 12,when he went off the rails.
"He was headed for a life of crime. I could just see it unfolding before[my eyes]. I had no authority in his life."
But she says he is a kind and caring boy who"was always out mowing my lawns,cleaning the gutters".
She believes a turning point in Masri’s radicalisation was in 2011,when he lost his half-brother in a motorbike accident.
"From that time onwards,he became very strict with his religion. That's what ultimately led him to where he is now. That pushed him even further along."
But Carol is adamant her son would not harm anyone.
"This boy,"she says,pointing to a school photo of her son,"he's not a killer. He's a naughty boy,but he's not a killer. I would have a tough time convincing people[of that]."
As Carol comes to terms with her new reality,including grandchildren,she says they"should be removed from there and brought back here".
"They didn't ask to be born there. That's a shocking state of affairs.[It’s a] sins of the father sort of scenario. I could write the cry-baby letter to the government,I guess,and get a reply back saying,‘No we're not doing anything about it’."
Either way,this unexpected news has changed her life.
"This is a shame and a stigma that I have to live with for the rest of my days now."
Kirsty Rosse-Emile:pizza,chocolate and jihad
Rosse-Emile,24,is the daughter of two former Christians who converted to Islam when she was nine. She grew up in a close-knit family home in south-east Melbourne and attended Muslim private school,Minaret College.
Her social media posts as a young teen showed a flirtation with the idea of jihad,along with a love of pizza,chocolate and the Fremantle Dockers AFL club.
A decade later,she is five months pregnant,with a two-year-old daughter,Amirah,and living in the overcrowded al-Hawl camp with 73,000 other people. She has already suffered one miscarriage,a year ago while still living under IS,and fears another.
"I’m still recovering from the traumatic experience in Baghouz with no food,with bullets shooting over your head,rockets landing right next to you,"Rosse-Emile says.
"I don’t want to push myself because I don’t want to lose another child,especially now that I’m not with my husband. I don’t know if I’m going to see him again. This could be my last child."
Some non-government organisations,including Save the Children,are present in the overcrowded camp,but the medical tents are a long walk away,and have lengthy queues.
If anything happens to them it's going to be a very dark day in Australia's history.
Kirsty's mother,Emma
Save the Children’s Syria response director Sonia Khush says the situation in al-Hawl is"growing more dire by the day".
"Quite simply,the camp is no place for a child ... A lack of basic health services and hygienic conditions means there’s a growing risk of potentially life-threatening illnesses,"Khush says.
"[The Australian government] should get everyone back … especially the women and children,"insists Rosse-Emile.
"The men are obviously going to be a different case for them,but for the women and children like most of us,we were just housewives or doing humanitarian aid. Why don’t we get a second chance?"
She travelled to Syria five years ago after she met and married a much older Moroccan immigrant,Nabil (whose full name she does not want to reveal).
They went"to practice our Islam freely with other people that are similar to us",she says.
"She went there with a view to be happy,the view to be under Sharia Law,"says Rosse-Emile's father,Guy,from his home in Melbourne,where he and his wife Emma are desperate.
Guy Rosse-Emile blames his daughter's husband Nabil,a one-time attendee of the infamous al-Furqan prayer room in Melbourne,for taking his daughter to Syria. Guy says he will never forgive him.
They say their daughter was an innocent party.
"I know Kirsty didn’t fight,she was just a housewife,"Guy says.
On his mobile phone he has precious images of a granddaughter he’s never met. She is wearing dirty gumboots in some. In others she appears pale and distant.
He wants her home.
"[Scott] Morrison purports to be a great Christian person but is adamant he's not going to help these people. Where is the Christian ethos? ... The ethos of compassion,love and forgiveness?"
Mother Emma says Kirsty was"worried about the little girl because she’s stopped talking and playing. All she can get in the way of food for her is dry dates.
"We can't send money there or we’ll be put in jail. If I had the money I'd fly over there tomorrow and pick her up and bring her back,and if I went to jail for it I would. I'm at a crossroads."
Emma is pleading with the Australian public to have mercy.
"I want[the Australian government] to do the right thing,get the planes over there and bring these people home. It is wrong,it is immoral and it is a sin.
"And if anything happens to them it's going to be a very dark day in Australia's history."
Families in limbo