Pleasure trip:The upside to falling down

Pleasure trip:The upside to falling down

All-day reading-fests. Cups of tea,delivered couch-side. Broccoli cancelled. Being helpless after falling does have its benefits.

  • byFenella Souter

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London,Paris,NY? No,Nebraska:Why this US state became my dream destination

London,Paris,NY? No,Nebraska:Why this US state became my dream destination

A 1980s album cover led a Queensland kid to a lifelong fascination with the US state of Nebraska. Decades later,it began permeating another imagined world.

  • byRobert Lukins
The question too many of us still ask about abusive relationships

The question too many of us still ask about abusive relationships

I won’t ever forget the last conversation I had with my sister Niki. We had plans for Sunday lunch,but Niki never made it. And she hasn’t been to a family lunch ever since.

  • byTarang Chawla
Deni Hines:Why my marriage with Kirk Pengilly failed after 18 months

Deni Hines:Why my marriage with Kirk Pengilly failed after 18 months

“I had issues with that relationship because I was young and didn’t dig deep enough to understand why it bothered me.”

  • byJane Rocca
Sex with a stranger after six years out of the dating game

Sex with a stranger after six years out of the dating game

I was trying to be different from the person who had given up on dating for so many years. The problem was that after that much time not connecting,I was as skittery as a virgin again.

  • byAimée Lutkin
I posted a bikini selfie. What happened next shocked me

I posted a bikini selfie. What happened next shocked me

An innocent Instagram post left me reeling when my inbox filled with unwanted messages from men,some known,some strangers.

  • byKathy Parker
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Being a mirror as a minority:I hugged a woman I never met

Being a mirror as a minority:I hugged a woman I never met

When we saw each other on the street,we didn’t “know” each other,but we knew each other.

  • byKemi Nekvapil
Tracks of our years:the soundtrack to a family ritual

Tracks of our years:the soundtrack to a family ritual

A dreamy 1980s song will forever be linked to an adored island – even as time transforms the long-loved holiday idyll.

  • byFrank Robson
In the depths of abuse,self-doubt led me to believe my perpetrator was right

In the depths of abuse,self-doubt led me to believe my perpetrator was right

While the harmful narrative still exists that people speak out about abuse for attention or financial gain,imposter syndrome is a pervasive feeling among many victim-survivors.

  • byAnonymous
Laying to rest the memory of a brother who lived 35 years alone in the bush

Laying to rest the memory of a brother who lived 35 years alone in the bush

The brothers made the dangerous trek and after a day’s search,found a shelter made from tarps and rope. At the entrance was Mark’s body.

  • byTom Patterson
Post-modern love:When lockdown interrupted our reunion,letter-writing helped

Post-modern love:When lockdown interrupted our reunion,letter-writing helped

They first met on a double-date in high school. When quarantine stalled a budding relationship decades later,a solution was at hand.

  • byRachelle Unreich