Going a bit wild when travelling overseas has been a rite of passage for some Australians.

Going a bit wild when travelling overseas has been a rite of passage for some Australians.Credit:Getty Images

Obviously though,people were going to do it. You didn’t travel all the way to Amsterdam on your big overseas experience just to sip a few beers and walk the Red Light District. So those of us tasked with getting 30 or 40 young Australians and Kiwis safely through Europe for a few weeks would advise our passengers:if you visit the Bulldog,a notorious “coffee shop” in central Amsterdam,and you buy the magic mushrooms,don’t consume the whole box. Go easy.

Most people took that advice on board. Some people didn’t. On my final night working on those tours,I was called by a few passengers while I was sitting on the Leidseplein drinking a beer,and asked to come help:“Lucy’s struggling.”

Indeed,Lucy was sitting in the Bulldog and she wasn’t looking great. She was barely conscious at that point,slumped in a corner. OK,let’s get her some fresh air and see what we can do.

I put her arm around my shoulder,lifted her onto her feet,and together we made our way towards to the door. About halfway there,Lucy turned to me,gratitude registering on her face,and threw up all over me.

Was that a rite of passage,back in the day? It doesn’t seem the classiest way to mark your progression into adulthood. And yet for many young Australians,that really was the thing you did,after school or after uni or when you’d finished your apprenticeship:you got on a plane and you toured around South-East Asia or Europe.

You partied hard. You drank too much. You took drugs. You tried things you wouldn’t normally attempt back home. You met people. You went a bit wild. You returned home with a whole lot of experiences that you would probably just keep under your hat from now on – there was no need for everyone back home to know.

But the world changes. People change. Technology changes. Trends change. And those old rites of passage become passe.

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A recent article inTraveller revealed some of those changes. A survey by the world’s largest youth travel agency,StudentUniverse,found that an increasing number of Gen Z travellers are forgoing drinking altogether when they travel,and only 21 per cent of young Australians prioritised partying while they were overseas.

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There were multiple reasons stated for that preference – concerns about safety and the desire to stay healthy the main ones – but there was another that I found particularly interesting:to avoid being recorded on social media doing something embarrassing. More than one-quarter of all respondents mentioned it.

That,to me,is pretty sad. You can’t go crazy when you travel any more because there’s a permanent record of everything you do. You can’t experiment,you can’t cut loose,because someone will be there recording it on their phone and it might end up on TikTok,or Snapchat,or Instagram or wherever the youth post content these days. No secrets. No lies.

You might scoff and say they’re not missing out on much. If going crazy means vomiting on your tour cook inside the Bulldog,maybe travel is better now. Maybe,the kids have got the right idea.

But I still think it’s a shame. We don’t have many genuine rites of passage in Australian society,particularly not in Anglo culture. We’re pretty devoid of traditions,we have nothing to mark the passing of ages or the journey into adulthood.

There are also increasing pressures on young people,with the cost of living rising sharply,home ownership getting further and further out of reach,climate change destroying the planet before our eyes. It would be nice to escape that as a young person,to feel you could book a backpacking trip overseas and tap out of your normal life for a while,go somewhere else and be someone else.

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Only,social media won’t let you. Gen Z is a global generation;everyone is connected at all times,there’s no switching off or escaping. That’s a tremendous amount of pressure. No wonder they don’t want to lose control.

I’m sure the boozy backpacker trip still exists (just as the Bulldog in Amsterdam still exists),but not to the extent it once did. It’s not normal. It’s certainly not a rite of passage. And maybe if you’re someone like,say,Lucy’s parents that would be a very good thing.

But I still think we’ve lost something.

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